LAUGHTER AND GENDER

HA HA HA or LOL?

Is online laughter gendered?

Roz Warren, Writing Coach
3 min readMay 4, 2023

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In an exemplary post giving men advice about how to stop giving women shit online, Jason Provencio calls out a particular kind of dude who posts comments on women’s Facebook pages:

I cannot tell you how many times I’ve seen women make a post about something in particular and a man comments something COMPLETELY random on the post.

Something that has nothing to do with the post. Usually followed with an “LOL”. I’m sorry, Chad. You’re not a 12-year-old girl, do NOT comment with an “LOL”. Man up and use “HAHAHA.”

To which I responded, in the comments section:

HA HA HA

Uh… I mean LOL.

I never knew laughs were gendered.

You learn something new on Medium every day.

But did I learn actually something new? Sure, Jason was just clowning around. But there’s always a truth at the heart of any good joke. Otherwise, it wouldn’t be funny. Which raises the question — are online laughs actually gendered?

Is Laughter Gendered?

How about ROFL? Is that male or female? Or is it nonbinary?

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Roz Warren, Writing Coach

Writing Coach Roz Warren (roSwarren@gmail.com) helps Medium writers craft better, more boost-able stories. Roz used to write for the New York Times.