I had hair down to my lower back. Then I had a kid and I just didn't have time to maintain it so one day when I was getting it cut I told my cutter to just lop it off. So that it was shoulder-length and far more managemable.
My hair cutter was thrilled.
My husband was angry. "How could you do this to me?" he cried when he first saw it.
He felt that I should have at least consulted with him.
We're no longer together and my hair is still shouldr length.