I’m not a body builder, but I’m a swimmer, which means that I’m lean and muscular, not because I want to meet some ideal standard or because I give a shit about whether some guy finds that sexy, but because I LOVE TO SWIM.

And if you swim a lot, that’s the body you have.

As you said, what counts is being comfortable in your own skin.

And I am comfortable in mine, even if you think my skinny butt isn’t sexy.

Writing Coach/Medium Sherpa Roz Warren(https://muckrack.com/roz-warren) (roSwarren@gmail.com) writes for everyone from the New York Times to the Funny Times.