It’s the instances where you push a guy’s hand away, and he pins your arms behind your head. Or, you squirm, he chuckles and then gets on top of you so you can’t move. It’s the “come onnnn” when you’ve made it clear that you don’t want to have sex.
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The last time this happened to me, the dude was actually surprised when I responded to being immobilized by weeping and shouting. Until he let me up. Which, thankfully, he did.