She did not confront her spouse immediately when she discovered his betrayal. Instead, she slowly drained their bank account of cash. She removed him as the beneficiary of her work benefits, including life insurance. She redirected her work direct deposit to a newly established checking account. She brought herself a used car then informed her relatives what was going on. After she found an apartment, she left his cheating ass. He came home from work to find the wife, the kids, and a large portion of the furniture gone.